This book would be great for an unaware high school or new college student that has a precedent of no self awareness. This book should be no-brainer for anyone over the age of 30. Lots of anecdotes that the author tries to pass as fact. Parts of the book come across as elitist. Immature writing style. Points where it sounds like she is talking vs. writing. Overly euphemistic. Very little fact associated with her theory of Nunchi. I asked one of my close Korean friends about Nunchi and he had never heard of it. Still an interesting theory if you can get past the poor attempt of support evidence that the author applies to the thesis.